Couples Therapy

In our pasts we learned to relate and love through the relationships, families, cultures, and religious institutions in which we were raised. It is the stickiness of past relationships that may have become the stuck you are in today. By looking at each partner’s family role, I will help you discover who you are today, and who you want to be together. By opening to your history, you can loosen and dispel the reactive patterns that drain your current relationship of intimacy, understanding, passion and compassion.

I firmly believe that in every couple there are three parts, each partner and the relationship itself. Security does not only come from internal experience but from the actions and expectations we carry for ourselves and our partners. Because of my depth background in couples work I both host the individual aspects of our own stories and the story of the relationship. The three are the balance necessary for success.

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Family Therapy

In family therapy I help family members relate by making clear the roles, rules, and expectations the family shares. As these family roles and values become clear, I will help the individuals work as a team — not as opponents — and support meaningful direction for each member. Everyone in a family should have a voice and everyone should have a positive role. On a technical note, family is about roles and attachment styles. It is about independence and dependance…

Individual Therapy

My primary interest is using the depth of who you are to help you relate to the roles and relationships in your life. Your life is a story, and you are the most important character in your story - wether you like this or not - you are the biggest agent of change. Together we can help you write a story that supports you, what you need and what type of story you are living. Do note that I am…